Does it work or does it not work? That`s the question.
Ray 9#. Does it work or does it not work? That`s the question. To stop thinking and talking in terms of `Right` and `Wrong` is not easy at all. We have been drenched in this destructive conversation since we were born. It`s like trying to nod while you say `no` or shaking your head while saying `yes`. Going against an automaticity. Not impossible, but difficult in the beginning. That`s why is is so helpul to do the Landmark Forum. For three whole days and an evening you`ll be drenched in a new conversation. A conversation that says that nothing is wrong, A conversation in which we stop looking for right and wrong. Instead, we distinguish without judgement what doesn`t work in our lives, jobs or relationships. We practice looking for things that work. We give up fighting against what we don`t like and can't change. We accept reality as it is. It is like Socrates said: -`The Secret of Change is to Focus All of Your Energy. Not on Fighting...