I am because you are.

Ray 3#. I am because you are.

I am being a certain way of being, because you are here.
Your presence elicits my being.

Human beings are social beings.
They do not thrive well in isolation.

Being alone at home,
listening to music, watching a movie, playing with a dog,
we can be afraid, happy, sad or angry .

But our being arises mostly with people.
Alone, we are being nothing.

Not because we are nothing.
Just because we are alone.
There is no one who calls us into being.

 I think we all know a situation in which we feel grumpy. 
Then a good friend comes by and suddenly we feel cheerful. 
Or the other way around: 
We are at peace and the nasty neighbour barges in without knocking at the door.....
What way of being will arise from that occasion?

What possibilty of my being will be unveiled by your presence today?
Will I be glad? Patient? Bored? Excited? Helpful? Irritated?

And will it merely pop up? Or do I have a say in the matter of who I am being?
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